

Not only that, while you're busy being angry and full of pain, the person you're angry with, is often somewhere having a good time! So, now is the time to let go. You don't forgive others for THEIR sake, or because they "deserve it," necessarily, you do it for your own sake, because holding on to anger and pain is toxic and bad for you. Spirituality: It's important now to give some thought to forgiveness. If you just "can't get over" what someone "did to you" or what happened in your past, now is the time to get help in resolving these issues, before you cause yourself serious damage/pain by dwelling on your past. Health: It's critical that you keep a positive attitude. Give something away, or make a small donation to a cause that you believe in. You're probably not as "bad off" as you think. The way to get a handle on this worry is actually to be generous. There will come a day when you realize that the reason this relationship ended was to get you to the place you "really want to be," which is in a relationship that really works for you, and works well.įinances: Worrying too much about money can actually have the opposite effect of what you are trying to "make happen" and that's having a better flow of financial prosperity - that is, a flow in your favor. Give yourself some time and space…then get back out there. You must realize that "all is not lost." You are probably not yet ready to move into a new relationship. Love: A love relationship you are in may have just ended or may be about to start the process of ending. Consider what you would like to be doing. When this card appears (and the question is about work…) it can be a signifier that you are actually in the wrong job.

Things with applications, resumes, and such, will likely be moving slowly. Work: If you are trying to find work when this card comes up, try not to get too worked up if there are delays. The implication is extremely clear are you going to cry over "spilt milk" or are you going to focus on the "milk" you still have, and get on with things? The point is: watch where you put your focus and make sure that the focus is for your highest good. Three are spilled, and two remain upright and whole. Most often, a sad or downcast figure is shown, with five cups. General: In most tarot decks, most depictions on each card give solid guides toward interpretation, for this card, this is more than usually the case. What are you going to choose to focus on? This is about healing, and that begins with being truly honest about how you feel.Introduction: The 5 of Cups is another card which reminds us that where we put our focus in life has a great deal to do with the quality of our lives and how well they work for us. Don’t be afraid of it – make some space in your life so that you can gently acknowledge what happened. If there’s anything you have ‘stuffed down’ in the past, a grief, guilt or grudge that you carry, now is a good time to face that. This can also represent going back to an old wound. Hold that knowledge deep inside and let it support you as you work through how you feel just now. Whenever you are ready – and there really is no rush – they will be there for you. Like the Four of Cups tarot card, the Five of Cups keen tarot. Those two cups – symbols of so much possibility for joy, love and fulfilment – are right behind you. The Five of Cups yes or no card symbolises lifes losses and tells us of our guilt and regrets. Remember, though, that life goes on around you. Healing can only take place when mourning is done – that might take a few days, it may take years, and both are fine. You don’t have to be any thing for anybody. Really give yourself the space to feel what you feel. If you’re putting on a brave face or being strong for someone else (or for yourself), now is the time to drop the act. For now, it’s okay to simply sit with our loss and feel our own pain. Hope is there in the background for when we are ready. They represent hope, and all of the positive, wonderful energy in the Two of Cups. In many illustrations of this card, two cups remain upright. It’s okay to feel sad: the Five of Cups offers us all permission to grieve. Though this isn’t really about ‘dealing’ with things. Whatever those cups held is now gone, and this person is left to deal with it. There’s very little here, but a figure, standing sadly beside overturned cups.

The Five of Cups shows us a moment of pure sadness.
